When the Perfect Job. . .Isn’t
(By Melinda
Pittman)
So you thought you landed
the job of your dreams, one that had it all—the type of work you’ve
always loved, a flexible schedule, even the money you were looking
for. There’s just one
problem. Now that
you’ve started the job, it’s not anything like you thought it was
going to be. What do
you do?
First, let’s talk about
what can be done to avoid such a situation. It all starts with effective
communication during the interview process. There are a lot of things
that happen when you’re conducting a job search: updating the
resume, coordinating interview times, gathering information about
the job, effectively selling yourself, etc. In addition, you’re probably
experiencing a tinge of excitement, which is perfectly
understandable.
However, excitement or
anticipation doesn’t need to cloud your judgment or more
importantly, prevent you from doing everything necessary in order to
make sure that accepting the position is ultimately in your best
interests. While it’s
important to show enthusiasm during the interview process, it’s
equally imperative to remain objective when assessing whether or not
the job is as good a fit as it appears to be.
The second step is asking
the right questions of the person or people interviewing you. Not everyone is comfortable
asking questions, but it’s a must. Open and honest discourse at
this early stage will not only help you to gather more information,
but will also set the tone for future interaction.
Below are some of the
issues you should definitely address during the interview
process:
- The job description, including the scope of your
responsibilities. Find out what the full performance objectives
are, and then equate your expertise and past experiences. In
other words, find out what you must do to be successful, and then
communicate your expertise in those areas.
- Who you’ll be reporting to. Is that likely to change in
the immediate future? If so, does that change the scope of
the department objectives, as well as the objectives you must
meet?
- Who you might be working with on a collaborative project (you
don’t need specific names, just a general sense of titles). What
business units within the company will you be interfacing?
- Notice the working environment—does it consist of offices or
cubicles? Then observe the people—do they seem friendly or do they
appear hurried and overworked?
Take
some time to write out your career objectives prior to the
interview, as well as questions you’d like to ask during the
interview. The more
specific you can be at the beginning, the easier it will be for you
to determine the correct course of action and the less likely you’ll
find yourself in a difficult situation.
Open and honest
communication . . . again
That doesn’t
help me, though, you say.
I’m already in this situation. What do I do
now?
Once again, open and
honest communication, tinged with the right amount of diplomacy,
will go a long way toward aiding your cause. Ask to speak with your
immediate supervisor behind closed doors. Express your concerns in a
non-confrontational way.
Certainly don’t accuse the company of misleading you, even if
you feel that has been the case.
Present your concerns as
though you believe a misunderstanding has taken place. Stress your desire for
clarification, citing what you were told before taking the position
against what your job currently entails. If you present yourself in a
professional and courteous manner and address the issue with the
proper demeanor, you may find that your supervisor is more than
willing to accommodate your needs. But you’ll never know unless
you ask.
And if the meeting yields
no results and it looks as though your “dream job” will continue its
devolution, you must continue to remain calm and composed. You now have a decision to
make. Assess the
situation as objectively as possible. Even though the position is
not what you thought it would be, are there opportunities to learn
new skills and technologies that will assist you in your career
goals? Will your role
expand into other areas that will give you “career stretch”? Does this or will this job
offer new opportunities that will shape your career and help you to
achieve your overall career goals?
If the answer to any of
these questions is “yes,” work with your new boss to show your value
to the organization, and ask for his or her assistance in moving
forward. However, if
the answer is “no,” it would now be in your best interests to
continue your job search, starting with those companies with which
you interviewed along with your current employer. If your supervisor is made
aware of your concerns, but has no solutions to offer, chances are
good they won’t be surprised if you move on.
Above all things, you
should remain professional and be willing to communicate with those
who are most able to help you remedy the situation. Although this may be
difficult in the short run, it can provide you with long-term
benefits and a new direction.
If you have any questions
about this topic, please contact me at melinda@thepitttmangroup.com.